I discuss: - The two most important characteristics the involved partner needs to move into repair - The built-in asymmetry between the hurt and involved partner - Being sorry for the infidelity vs. being sorry for the damage - Moving out of shame and into remorse Watch the full video here: https://www.terryreal.com/coming-back-from-infidelity-part-two/ | Terry Real - Relational Life Institute
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