This has gotten me called “rude”, “confrontational”, “annoying”, “defiant” etc! But the truth is that I am not asking because I am trying to be annoying or rude and especially not because I don’t wanna do the thing that the person is telling me. It is because I genuinely just need to understand the reasoning before I do it, I need to make sense of things for myself, otherwise it feels like my brain can’t process the request. I think this article further explains things really well: https://www.t