I open the folder, everything is sorta by name, and a second or two later (or longer), it re-sorts by date. Why? Any way to fix that? I want my folders on top and the files sorted by date, and for it ...

I think this is exactly how Mac OS works too, except for the thing I mentioned about sorting. The big difference is that if you want to use the keyboard, there is CMD+o to open files in Mac OS, ...